Passing Notes

Notes from a Parent/Teacher to Parents and Teachers

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“Writing” in schools: it AIN’T what it used to be

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If your child is in elementary school you’ve hopefully noticed that the way that writing is taught differs vastly from when you were a kid. Not that I want to age you, – (or myself for that matter), – but I’ll bet that you had either worksheets or a workbook, or maybe both. If so, then it’s highly unlikely that you had many chances to express yourself through writing and develop ideas or a “voice” to accompany those ideas. It is my hope, that the one-size-fits all approach is a thing of the past for your children.

Why you ask? Let me provide you with the following analogy: when we admire a work of visual art, we are more apt to comment on its aesthetics, the message, its meaning and so forth. Yes, the medium and the techniques that were used, help to convey that message, but it’s not the techniques in and of themselves that determine its aesthetic value. Now try to transfer that over to writing. As writers, what’s important for children is for them to get an idea or message out.

Word work and conventions

Of course, in order to do that they also need to pick the right form to do it in and to have the skill necessary to carry forward that idea. So where do conventions come in? You know, the dreaded, – (by some), – spelling, grammar and punctuation “rules”? Well, your child is likely engaged in word work in class, which means exactly what it’s called, working with words in various ways at school. Children have to manipulate words and sentences, and expand vocabulary in activities that honour their abilities. There’s no need for a spelling test because researchers have long known that rote memorization doesn’t usually transfer over to our writing.

 

Your child’s conference with their teacher:  Feedback at its finest

Most importantly, it should be the case that your child’s teacher is spending oodles of one-on-one or small group time in teacher-student conferences – little meetings where the teacher helps to guide the young writer and help them develop their craft. This is often based on written works that students have chosen to write about in accordance with their interests. Each child’s conference is unlike another’s and deals with distinct writing needs because each child develops writing abilities differently from the next one.

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So what’s left for you as a parent to encourage writing at home?

 

Get you child hooked on writing. Relax, it’s easier than it sounds. Does your child like dinosaurs, skateboarding or the latest kid craze? Let them write about it…without restrictions, so they choose the genre or form and the purpose or reason for their writing. The kid who loves board games can make up board games and write the procedures for them, the little cook, can re-write or invent a recipe, the kid who misses her faraway cousin can write emails to them. The music lover can write rap lyrics. Children are ALWAYS motivated to write when they have choice in the topic. They HAVE to have a vested interest in the topic. When they see they have a purpose for writing, they just want to write.

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 Form + Purpose + Audience

➢ There are many ways to get out an idea, but some ways are better than others, and your kids might need some guidance. For example, for families planning a yard sale, the kids can write posts on Craigslist, make posters, signs, flyers or brochures. All of these forms have different features and though the idea of getting out a message is the same, the medium changes what goes into it. So a posting online will have more details than a sign to be hung on a lawn. But all require an understanding of writing as well as how media informs us. Kids will need your gentle guidance for writing.

Be the editor…and only pick one area of focus for them

➢ Which brings me to the next point: spelling, grammar and punctuation. After the message has been written, this is the best time to work on these, so as not to hamper the thought process as children brainstorm and write. Kids can pick one thing they find challenging enough to work on (e.g. the capitalization in a poster), while you, their editor walks them through the rest. It’s important for them to develop the skills about how language is structured so that they can convey their message well. No one wants to send out an important written message that is incorrect.

 


So, how do you see writing being taught in your child’s class? Which approaches do you prefer? How do you encourage writing to happen at home? Share your ideas with other parents below!

 

Daniela

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Do kids even need homework?

As a parent, you either loathe it or love it.  There is no grey area.

Busy parents that are trying to get from soccer practice to grandma’s in time for dinner and enjoy a bike ride and a good book somewhere in between will be in the “loathe” category.  Homework to them often means there’s no time for extra-curriculars or precious family time.  As a parent, I don’t over-program my child, but even with only one extra-curricular class per week, we cannot find time to do much else besides dinner and a bit of rushing around preparing for the next day before we have to start thinking about doing homework.  This may be a larger issue altogether, one which speaks to the type of world we live in.  Living in a rushed society means that I often find myself saying, “we only have 5 minutes at the park”, and “there’s no time to go for a bike ride or to walk the dog today”.  And that stinks.  It really stinks.

On the other side of the fence are a large cohort of parents who value keeping their children occupied with homework because it is considered a good use of time and a much better alternative to screen time.  They want their children to excel in academic areas and value any extra work that their kids can get in order to attain extra knowledge.

I can see value in both ideas and although it may seem so, I am NOT trying to create a divide between these two seemingly-different groups of parents.  If anything, I think that what binds us together is that we both want the best for our children – just in different ways. But I think parents might want to reconsider what IS good for their children with regards to homework. With that in mind, I’d like to share the following tidbits:

The Toronto District School Board’s Homework Policy states:

 ”Wherever possible, homework assignments shall be assigned to be returned using blocks of time so that families can best support homework completion by balancing the time required to complete homework with extra curricular activities scheduled outside of the school day and activities that support personal and family wellness. Parents who have concerns with homework expectations for their child shall be encouraged to contact their child’s teacher or the school principal to discuss the situation.”

Homework is not even considered beneficial (vis-a-vis other family activities) until about grade 7.  The TDSB makes note of this idea…homework assigned in the early grades shall more often take the form of reading, playing a variety of games, having discussions and interactive activities such as building and cooking with the family.”

This short video interview by University of Toronto professor Linda Cameron sums things up nicely and explains the political motivations for the homework push:  http://video.google.ca/videoplay?docid=5995900052641482521 and the reasons that less homework is actually a better alternative for your kids.

 

As a teacher, I have to put in my two-cents worth.  I whole-heartedly agree that reading at home with a family member is the most worthwhile of homework activities, as are, meaningful educational activities at home (e.g. cooking).  Also, any homework sent out (ocassionally) should link directly back to a current theme of study to reinforce things.  However, I strongly feel that homework needs to be put IN ITS PLACE!  No busy work ever made a kid smarter.  It just kept them busy.  Which is VERY different from developing skills and knowledge.  I haven’t done any studies on this, but have read enough of them to develop an idea of the value of homework, so feel free to quote me on that.

The teacher in me wants parents to keep in mind that your child is accountable for every millisecond of their day at school with me:  they are busy reflecting, thinking, creating, exploring and theorizing.  That’s hard work, and they need a break from all the pressure they receive for all the curriculum which they are supposed to understand in any given grade.

In addition, teachers are not really supposed to use homework for assessment of academic areas as it is generally not a reliable form of assessment, – (they can be used for the Learning Skills portion).  So why do some parents want more homework?  To keep kids busy?

I believe that families need to say “Yes” to:  more time for reading under the covers, more time to walk in your neighbourhood and chat with neighbours, more time to garden on warm days or collect and classify fallen leaves, more time to visit family without the worry of getting “busy work done”, more time to role play, and build and laugh…They need more time to delve into research that interests them, on topics they choose, and which allows them to grow from their own questions.  Children need more time to live without being burdened with the pressures of grown ups.  There will be plenty of that in their futures.

I think the best use of their time is to explore and be creative.  A mighty hard thing to ask of traditional homework, isn’t it?

 

Daniela

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For more detail on the Toronto District School Board’s Homework Policy, see here:

http://www.tdsb.on.ca/wwwdocuments/parents/homework/docs/homeworkpolicy.pdf

 

An interesting article regarding the issue:

http://www.thestar.com/news/tdsb/article/477165–tdsb-s-new-homework-guide-none-for-some-less-for-most

 

 

 

 

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Create homework “Hot Spots” at home

 

Are your kids in the process of settling into homework routines now that school has begun?  Do you have a homework area that needs updating? Do you wonder if you even need a desk?

 

Check out my latest clubmom.ca blog post here to see how you can create comfortable, portable and easy homework areas for your child, according to their own needs and personalities.

 

Cheers!

Daniela

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Things that make you go…hmmmnn (is that reference dating me?)

What would you like to see on this blog?  Send me a message with what you are curious about and we’ll go from there.

I make no claims to answer all questions, nor do I want to be the “constructor” of all “answers”.  Together with other parents and

educators, we may just be able to create a place to engage ourselves in educational discourse that matters.

Some of the most recent questions I’ve been asked are:

-Why does my kid’s math look SO different than when I was a child?

-I don’t know how to approach my teacher about (blank) issue.

-What is Media Literacy?

-Help! My daughter got a low grade in (insert subject).  How can I help her at home with this subject?

-My son is having “behaviour” problems at school, but he’s never displayed those concerns at home or at daycare.  What can I do?

Oh, and because we live in such a litigious society, the fine print is as follows:  I only represent my own views, (which obviously piggy-back on the great ideas of other educators at large), not necessarily those of your child’s teacher, any District School Board, and that you should always talk to them about any concerns or questions you may have.

Cheers,

Daniela